Jonnyy33
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Post by Jonnyy33 on Jan 1, 2011 20:57:17 GMT -5
Heyy. Ummm. Ok. so theres this girl and shes kinda my best friend. SHe is the most beautiful girl ive ever seen in my life. She has the sweetest personality and we have alot in common. Shes the most amazing girl i know. I always think about her. and i love her, i think. Shes the best thing in my life. But i told her i liked her a couple weeks ago and she never said much about it. I didnt tell her like completely how i felt like how much i like her. And it kind complicated our friendship and we dont hang out much but she and i still talk alot. And i think im stuck in the friend zone kinda.
And now shes "talking" with this guy Kevin. And it looks like they might date. and i realized i missed an opportunity to be with her. But now shes interested in Kevin. And i think shes the msot amzing girl in the whole world, but i cant tell ehr that now. I want her to be happy. but i want her to be happy with me. But i dont want to say something to her now and jeopardize our friendship. cuz shes so important to me.
and i dont know what to do. should i tell her or not. should i back off or just try to be with her. or if i should give up cuz we are friends and she will never see me like that. Could someone please help me. =/
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Post by Rob on Jan 1, 2011 22:11:24 GMT -5
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Post by Mariah on Jan 4, 2011 13:01:51 GMT -5
Well I can tell you what not to do.
DO not tell her that Kevin is wrong for her. If you do this, she will think you're just jealous and not supporting what she wants because you kinda told her you like her.
I think as of now it's good to just be a friend. Be there for her. If Kevin ever hurts her in any way, you can be there for her And that will be more important to her, knowing that you'll be there for her.
In time Things might work out. But when you start out as friends It's always best to let the friendship grow on it's own into this sort of relationship instead of forcing it a little early.
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Jonnyy33
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Post by Jonnyy33 on Jan 4, 2011 17:08:01 GMT -5
wow. thats exactly what i needed. haha. alright. i'll do that. thanks sooooooooooooo much =] i really appreciate your help.
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Jonnyy33
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Post by Jonnyy33 on Jan 22, 2011 23:21:39 GMT -5
ummm. ok. her and kevin are done "talking" with each other.
what should i do now?
make a move? or what?
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Post by Mariah on Jan 26, 2011 22:15:41 GMT -5
Sorry i'm a little late.. Give her time. She might not be ready to talk to anyone else She might have liked Kevin and it just didn't work out So she may need time to get over it
Still, don't force anything. Just let her know that you'll be there for her if she wants to talk about anything at all.
as of now, be the best friend you can be to her. That will mean more to her right now.
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